WALKING MY WAYS
WALKING MY WAYS. “Are we getting older or younger?” an older gentleman inquired, as I walked through the Post Office. “I am getting older and you are getting younger,” I quickly replied. It turns out he was 88. I was 93. And a woman, who witnessed this exchange, was a sprightly 83. And in this way, the older generation entertains itself.
And the other way, is to hold the doors open. For everyone. Especially the doors of the Carmel-by-the-Sea Post Office, which are held open far more often than most. FAR MORE. A generosity which spreads a wonderful sense of community spirit. And then a lady thanked me for both my blog and podcast. For which I was grateful. But as she wore sunglasses and a large hat, as well as multiple layers of clothes, I had no idea who she was. Sadly. Although I did thank her.
And during the two weeks surrounding Christmas and the New Year, Carmel received a ton of visitors. When there was power. If there was no power, it became a mute point. But when there was electricity, there seemed to be more visitors, than I can remember, in a very long time. Walking the streets. Driving their cars. Eating in restaurants. Searching for parking spaces. And on. One car turned a “U” turn directly in front of me. Into the parking space that I had planned to snag. Was I right? Was he right? Who cared? Other than I.
And so we brought in the New Year. With a thousand thoughts. One of which was to emulate the sayings of famous people. Among them was Charles Dickens, who followed a wonderful beacon: “Have a heart that never hardens, and a temper that never tires, and a touch that never hurts.” And so, if all of us follow these simple precepts, the world will be a better place to live. Every Where. Every Day. Guaranteed. Finis.


As always, Hans remembers the time when we held doors open for ladies (without claiming to be sexist), when we offered seats on the bus top older or infirm citizens, when we said "please" snf "thank you," instead of "no worriers;"; when we actually dressed in nice clothes to ride in an airplane, and when skies were the FRIENDLY skies; and when, like Hans, we were GENTLEmen and LADIES - and proud of it. Just like we are of Hans each week. Finis